I can't tell you how many people gawk at me every time I set foot in a public space, whether it's an innocent four year old who considers me a real life Transformer or a rude adult trying to gauge my level of intelligence based on appearance. (That number's probably somewhere in the hundred thousands) Sometimes its so nerve-wracking that I almost lose my temper, but I manage to keep it in check. I put on my best smile and keep moving about my day in hopes that they will unglue their eyes from me once I round the next corner. However, I'm not always so fortunate.
At times like these, I realize that I'm going to have to suffer through the awkward small talk associated with meeting new people. In some cases, the person who approaches me plasters on a fake smile and nods like some automated bobble head as I introduce myself. Other times they seem to be genuinely interested in the things I have to say. In either case, their jaw never fails to hit the floor after I tell them that I am a full time college student.
It's almost as though they expect me to be completely incapable of mastering college-level concepts simply because of my physical state. I find it both frustrating and amusing that almost everyone equates physical disability with a complete lack of cognition. Fortunately, they seem to walk away with a better attitude and the understanding that just because I can't walk doesn't mean that I'm unable to develop and fulfil dreams. It's moments like those that restore my faith in humanity.
For all those who read my blog that are fortunate enough to be free from the clutches of a physical disability: Don't assume that someone who struggles physically doesn't have the potential to flourish academically. We often have just as much potential as you do. I can assure you that we are not alien life forms who desire nothing more than to eat your brains. Don't be afraid to strike up a conversation.
Now to address all of my readers who do suffer from a physical disability: Please don't allow the words of a few ignorant passersby destroy your self-confidence. You have just as much talent as the next person. Take pride in the things that make you unique, love yourself, and most importantly, don't be afraid to tell your story. You never know who you may inspire.
Sincerely,
Alexis
